MacArthur Foundation Recipients Include Women Baby Boomers

How wonderful to see Crone genius not only recognized, but rewarded. With money.

Wisdom and intellect. We need more of that combination.

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Pamela O. Long, MacArthur grant recipient.

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The MacArthur Foundation has awarded its 2014 “genius” grants to 21 individuals, and women from the Baby Boom – and beyond – are well represented. To read more about the winners and their fascinating work, click here for the online article from the Washington Post. (Please bear in mind that I have no control over the advertising content in these pages.)

 

 

 

New Year Sweets for Your Little Sweeties

L’ Shanah Tovah! It’s Rosh HaShanah, the Jewish New Year, and time to celebrate!bit o honey

You’re not Jewish? Join in anyway. It’s always a good time to acknowledge life and renewal, and any good celebration always includes good treats.

The traditional treat for Rosh HaShanah is apples dipped in honey. The combination represents looking forward to a fruitful and sweet new year. My personal preference? Gala apples – just the right texture and flavor to mix with the richness of the honey.

Oooh…honey. Honey is drippy and sticky, and serving it to your little ones means more honey on them than in them. Bit O Honey candy to the rescue. The miniature bars can be served with apple slices, or larger bars cut up into small pieces for little fingers. Just check the label first if you have a concern about food allergies.

Here’s to a sweet and prosperous New Year!

The Season of the Crone is Upon Us

We have elm trees in our back yard, and frankly, I was not a fan.

The elm is considered to have mystical properties because its branches grow in Y formations resembling the shape of a chalice.

The elm is considered to have mystical properties because its branches grow in Y formations resembling the shape of a chalice.

There isn’t a season when they aren’t dropping something — flowers, fruits, leaves — making a mess all over the patio. They drop twigs and branches as often as they drop leaves. When it comes to yard work, we’re in a never ending battle to keep ahead of what we’ve come to call the “tree crap.” The trees always win.

Not a fan of elms.

Until I learned that the elm is associated with the Crone.

It makes sense. History and mythology associate the elm with magical practice because the branches grow in configurations resembling Us or Ys, shapes associated with cauldrons and chalices. I’m so glad I came upon this information on the eve of the Autumnal Equinox. How appropriate! A time of turning from summer, to fall, to winter, remembering our summer glories under the waning moon while preparing to draw inside to nurture ourselves with what we have stored up for leaner times.The season of the Crone is upon us, and my elms are calling.

I plan to go outside tonight, stand under my elm trees and look up at the waning moon, celebrating seasons past and the warmth of fires yet to come.

I might let out a good howl or two.

I invite you to join me.

 

Improv Wubbanub

It may not have a face or a tail, but it'll get you through in a pinch.

It may not have a face or a tail, but it’ll get you through in a pinch.

We all love the Wubbanubs.

Who knows how many wee ones have sucked themselves to sleep on those cute little animals attached to pacifiers? It’s a stuffed animal, it’s a pacifier, it’s a win/win!

Until…uh oh! Wubbanub falls out of the grocery cart, or Mommy can’t find it in time to bring it to Nana’s. Then what?

I whipped up this improv “Wubbanub” today for my grandson. I grabbed a pacifier I already had on hand, then took a silk handkerchief that had belonged to my mother and ran it through the loop at the pacifier’s end until I had equal lengths of fabric on either side.  As you can see above, I kept tying knots until I came to the ends.

Our little man took to it immediately. The silk was soft and the knots were interesting to feel. I had the added satisfaction of knowing he was holding a little bit of his great-grandmother, who would have loved him to the moon and back.

This can be done with any soft fabric (a baby washcloth or dishtowel) as long as you can pull it through the pacifier’s end loop. In fact, I did this many times for my daughter twenty-some years before Wubbanubs hit the market. It’s a grandmother’s trick from ages back.

Safety warning!

This is an in-a-pinch hack, not a final solution. Unless you stitch the knots to keep them permanently tied, do not leave the baby unsupervised with this make-shift toy. We don’t want a little one to untie the knots, suck, swallow, and choke on a loose end of fabric. Keep an eye on your sweetie until she’s asleep, then remove the pacifier.

 

 

Kissing Mother Teresa

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Says it all, doesn’t it? This delightful image comes from www.afreshchapter.com

Today I met a supreme Crone.

This energetic, affectionate woman is a grandmother of four and devout Catholic. I commented on the beautiful gold religious medal she was wearing, and she held it up for me to examine. It was 14K, round, about an inch in diameter, with an image of Blessed Teresa of Calcutta on the front. It hung from a long heavy gold chain. This was an expensive piece of jewelry.

Then this wise grandmother turned over the medal so I could see all the little indentations on the back – her grandchildren’s teeth marks.

“Every time they sit in my lap they like to teeth on it,” she laughed. “They actually bite it, but I say they’re kissing Mother Teresa.”

We agreed we could think of no one who would be more welcoming of a child’s attention than this good missionary to the poor. But I was just as touched by the grandmother who knows where true value lies.

Two thumbs up, and welcome to the Granny Gallery!

 

Jane Goodall Continues to Inspire Dreamers and Doers

Let’s get away from stereotypes for a minute. Or a year. Or forever.

Jane Goodall empowers a new generation with the knowledge that they can save the earth and its inhabitants.

Jane Goodall empowers a new generation with the reassurance that they can save the earth and its inhabitants.

Grandmotherdom does not consign you to a condo in Boca organizing bake sales. This item from the Tampa Tribune features my childhood hero and role model, Jane Goodall – scientist, educator, environmentalist, grandmother, pioneer. The Queen of Crones knows you never retire as long as there is work to do and a new generation to inspire. Fight the good fight, Jane!

To read the article in its entirety, click here.

Balancing Baby Beads

Here’s another use for my favorite silicone chew beads.

 

Silicone teething beads can help you teach your baby to balance while sitting.

My grandson is four and a half months old, and starting to get the hang of sitting up, until – whoops! – he wobbles. Baby down! Fortunately, he’s also at the stage of the iron grip, where anything that gets into his little grasp stays there until his fingers can be coaxed open (frequently releasing strands of my hair. OW!)

Why “fortunately”? Well, why not use the iron grip to teach another skill? I pull out my silicone beads, open the clasp to make a long string, and place a bead in each of his hands about eight inches apart on the strand. Then I take the loose ends of the beads and hold the the string up straight and tight, pulling him into a balanced sitting position. If he leans to one side or the other, I pull to the opposite side and straighten him up.

Of course, eventually he decides that the beads should go in his mouth, so we take a chewy break, then start over.

Seriously, I know my daughter successfully survived her childhood, but how did I survive motherhood without these beads?!

 

 

 

Clouds From Both Sides Now

Cloud doughCloud dough, that is. A more traditional receipe as well as a safe-in-the-mouth version for the littles who have to taste everything they handle.

This creative tip was shared by a childhood friend who is now a proud grandmother living in Arizona. It comes from the Happy Hooligans website, where you’ll find loads of other great suggestions for kid-friendly crafts and activities.